TIP: Don't assume pronouns (DBO)

by kidtsunami , Atlanta, GA, Thursday, July 24, 2014, 00:46 (3572 days ago) @ Cody Miller

Regarding he/him/his as the gender neutral terms suggests masculine pronouns are the default or standard and that should not be the case. I certainly don't appreciate it when people assume I'm a guy and use masculine pronouns when I join an online community where you can not display your gender in some way, and I know many ladies and queer or non-binary people don't appreciate it either.

It doesn't assume you are a guy. Technically, you are supposed to use "he" or "him" if the gender is unknown in the english language and you are referring to a singular person. It's not done out of insensitivity, just protocol. You can be unhappy about this, but that is what's proper linguistically.

Yeah, I find that language can actually have a lot embedded in it. A wise man once said to me reasons not rules make us strong.

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Hello Hello DBO! - CommandrCleavage, 2014-07-23, 06:52
- Hi! - Avateur, 2014-07-23, 06:54
- Hello, uh, is that REALLY your chosen username? - kidtsunami, 2014-07-23, 06:55
  - Hello, uh, is that REALLY your chosen username? - CommandrCleavage, 2014-07-23, 06:57
    - Cool, WELCOME! - kidtsunami, 2014-07-23, 07:21
  - Maybe he's a geologist - Cody Miller, 2014-07-23, 07:16
    - *she's - bluerunner, 2014-07-23, 07:19
    - TIP: Don't assume pronouns - Grizzlei, 2014-07-23, 09:01
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        S/he ? - someotherguy, 2014-07-23, 09:34
        
        I wouldn't go with that. - Grizzlei, 2014-07-23, 11:40
        
        I wouldn't go with that. - someotherguy, 2014-07-23, 13:38
        
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      - Lol. Was thinking the same thing. *poke poke* *run* - GrimBrother One, 2014-07-23, 15:14
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        Roger that! Will be good times. - Malagate, 2014-07-23, 07:41
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