TIP: Don't assume pronouns (DBO)
Regarding he/him/his as the gender neutral terms suggests masculine pronouns are the default or standard and that should not be the case. I certainly don't appreciate it when people assume I'm a guy and use masculine pronouns when I join an online community where you can not display your gender in some way, and I know many ladies and queer or non-binary people don't appreciate it either.
It doesn't assume you are a guy. Technically, you are supposed to use "he" or "him" if the gender is unknown in the english language and you are referring to a singular person. It's not done out of insensitivity, just protocol. You can be unhappy about this, but that is what's proper linguistically.
You are correct, Cody, but most newer style guides at least mention that it is perceived by many readers as sexist and because of this suggest you rewrite the sentence to avoid the issue. It rarely comes up in my professional writing, and there are cases where I think it's a tough call. The awkwardness of writing around it is more disruptive than using the masculine pronoun, but then it's a case of pick your poison. Which readers are you willing to lose?
Complete thread:
- Hello Hello DBO! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 06:52
- Hi! - Avateur, 2014-07-23, 06:54
- Hello, uh, is that REALLY your chosen username? -
kidtsunami,
2014-07-23, 06:55
- Hello, uh, is that REALLY your chosen username? -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 06:57
- Cool, WELCOME! - kidtsunami, 2014-07-23, 07:21
- Maybe he's a geologist -
Cody Miller,
2014-07-23, 07:16
- *she's - bluerunner, 2014-07-23, 07:19
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Grizzlei,
2014-07-23, 09:01
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Cody Miller,
2014-07-23, 09:32
- S/he ? -
someotherguy,
2014-07-23, 09:34
- I wouldn't go with that. -
Grizzlei,
2014-07-23, 11:40
- I wouldn't go with that. - someotherguy, 2014-07-23, 13:38
- I wouldn't go with that. -
Grizzlei,
2014-07-23, 11:40
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Xenos,
2014-07-23, 09:38
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 10:02
- TIP: You know what you could do... -
Hyokin,
2014-07-23, 10:11
- TIP: You know what you could do... -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 10:51
- TIP: You know what you could do... - MrPadraig08, 2014-07-23, 11:28
- TIP: You know what you could do... -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 10:51
- TIP: You know what you could do... -
Hyokin,
2014-07-23, 10:11
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 11:27
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Grizzlei,
2014-07-23, 11:45
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 11:50
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
RaichuKFM,
2014-07-23, 13:48
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns - Kermit, 2014-07-23, 14:54
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
RaichuKFM,
2014-07-23, 13:48
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 11:50
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Grizzlei,
2014-07-23, 11:45
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 10:02
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Grizzlei,
2014-07-23, 11:36
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Cody Miller,
2014-07-23, 14:36
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 15:07
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
ncsuDuncan,
2014-07-23, 23:11
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Kermit,
2014-07-24, 10:55
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Cody Miller,
2014-07-24, 17:25
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns - Kermit, 2014-07-25, 08:41
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Cody Miller,
2014-07-24, 17:25
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Kermit,
2014-07-24, 10:55
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
ncsuDuncan,
2014-07-23, 23:11
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns - uberfoop, 2014-07-23, 15:10
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns - SonofMacPhisto, 2014-07-23, 16:38
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns - kidtsunami, 2014-07-24, 00:46
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 15:07
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Cody Miller,
2014-07-23, 14:36
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns - RaichuKFM, 2014-07-23, 13:42
- S/he ? -
someotherguy,
2014-07-23, 09:34
- TIP: Don't assume pronouns -
Cody Miller,
2014-07-23, 09:32
- Way to go Cody. -
Revenant1988,
2014-07-23, 12:22
- Lol. Was thinking the same thing. *poke poke* *run* - GrimBrother One, 2014-07-23, 15:14
- I look away from the thread for a few hours.. - Zeouterlimits, 2014-07-23, 16:04
- Hello, uh, is that REALLY your chosen username? -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 06:57
- I know you! -
bluerunner,
2014-07-23, 07:24
- I know you! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 07:26
- I know you! -
Malagate,
2014-07-23, 07:31
- I know you! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 07:35
- Roger that! Will be good times. - Malagate, 2014-07-23, 07:41
- I know you! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 07:35
- I know you! -
Malagate,
2014-07-23, 07:31
- I know you! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 07:26
- Welcome Aboard! - DaDerga, 2014-07-23, 07:25
- Hello again! -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 08:17
- Hello again! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 08:24
- Hello again! -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 08:33
- Hello again! -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 10:04
- Rick Springfield -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 11:20
- Rick Springfield -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 16:39
- Rick Springfield - Kermit, 2014-07-23, 17:05
- Rick Springfield -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 16:39
- Rick Springfield -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 11:20
- Hello again! -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 10:04
- Hello again! -
Kermit,
2014-07-23, 08:33
- Hello again! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 08:24
- Hello Hello DBO! -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 08:17
- Hello Hello DBO! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 08:23
- Hello Hello DBO! - SonofMacPhisto, 2014-07-23, 10:00
- You've been on the forum only a few hours -
Revenant1988,
2014-07-23, 10:05
- You've been on the forum only a few hours -
bluerunner,
2014-07-23, 10:12
- aw yiss - SonofMacPhisto, 2014-07-23, 10:20
- You've been on the forum only a few hours -
bluerunner,
2014-07-23, 10:12
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* -
Bones,
2014-07-23, 10:20
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* -
Revenant1988,
2014-07-23, 12:21
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* -
bluerunner,
2014-07-23, 12:44
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 16:40
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* - Korny, 2014-07-23, 21:48
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* -
SonofMacPhisto,
2014-07-23, 16:40
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* - General Vagueness, 2014-07-23, 16:18
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* -
bluerunner,
2014-07-23, 12:44
- 5 stars, would get murdered again - MrPadraig08, 2014-07-23, 12:32
- HBOHIO LAN Mega Write-Up! *SHORT* -
Revenant1988,
2014-07-23, 12:21
- Hello Hello DBO! -
CommandrCleavage,
2014-07-23, 08:23
- Hello Hello DBO! -
CaneCutter,
2014-07-23, 08:44
- Hello Hello DBO! - CommandrCleavage, 2014-07-23, 10:52
- Hello! - Grizzlei, 2014-07-23, 09:00
- Welcome! - Xenos, 2014-07-23, 09:34
- Welcome to the party! - Hyokin, 2014-07-23, 10:14
- but, you're supposed to be dead! -
MrPadraig08,
2014-07-23, 10:32
- but, you're supposed to be dead! - LostSpartan, 2014-07-23, 12:15
- Hello Hello DBO! - Speedracer513, 2014-07-23, 10:38
- Greetings! - SigbiasSilva, 2014-07-23, 11:24
- Hello Hello DBO! -
stabbim,
2014-07-23, 14:53
- Hello Hello DBO! - CommandrCleavage, 2014-07-23, 16:12
- Hello Hello DBO! -
Sammy Whammy,
2014-07-23, 15:22
- Hello Hello DBO! - CommandrCleavage, 2014-07-23, 16:11
- Hello Hello DBO! - Cody Miller, 2014-07-23, 17:44
- Welcome! I'll be playing on XB1 as well. :) - Atsumi, 2014-07-23, 20:43
- Hello Hello DBO! - HuskerAlpha, 2014-07-24, 07:48