Destiny is a classy lady.

by Leviathan , Hotel Zanzibar, Tuesday, February 19, 2013, 09:05 (4295 days ago) @ kapowaz

I've more questions than answers at this point.

THAT is the fun part!

Let's say your friend introduces you to this girl named Destiny (okay... so it sounds a little like a stripper name or something, but whatever, she's really cute and you know you're friend has good taste...). You get her name, a general gist, and of course now you know what she looks like.

It's perfectly natural to have more questions than answers at this point. That's part of the fun of courting her, part of the fun of looking forward to the next date with her. What mysteries does she hold? Is what you think of her accurate or will she continue to surprise you? Maybe you'll find out you've got a ton of shared interests, maybe she'll make you love things you've never heard of.

But if you try to rush things or pry, you're gonna do a disservice to the both of ya. And if you listen to your jerk friends who like to insult every relationship you're in, you're also going to screw this up for yourself.

And if you end up wanting to spend your money on a ring and marry her and dedicate your free time to her - you still wouldn't want to know all the mysteries up front. You'd still want to be surprised years down the road, I think.

To be satisfied with answers is never exciting - the questions are the journey. Never have more answers than questions!