This has been my biggest fear. (Destiny)

by stabbim , Des Moines, IA, USA, Monday, January 22, 2018, 18:57 (2285 days ago) @ cheapLEY

I think there are 2 problems contributing to this:

1. Generally if I see people online playing something other than what I want to play, I won't send them invites, because I just don't want to bother them if they're intending to play something else at the time. I don't know if this is something everyone does, or if it's just me projecting my non-spontaneous personality onto others. I do make exceptions to this for people I've played a certain game with A LOT. For example, there's a friend I've known since high school who I often play Forza with - if he's online at all, I'll invite him to that.

2. Often when we're looking for people to invite to Destiny, we use the in-game friends list, so we're only really seeing the people who are already on Destiny.